The full moon which will occur tonight, just past Christmas Day, at exactly 5:11 a.m., Central Standard Time, last occurred forty years ago in 1977 which is when Gregory and I celebrated our first Christmas knowing each other. For the first time in 40 years, there will be a full moon on Christmas!
We actually met on January 10, 1976 and during that first year courted like couples did in the old fashioned days. He was married to Barbara and I was in a committed relationship with Robert.
By the next year, both Barbara and Robert would be out of the picture and Gregory and I would have consummated our relationship and been behaving like two very foolish young people in love.
I certainly would not have had any slight inkling at that time that I would end up here, during our 40th year, alone and grieving Gregory's passing with both of us living and loving so strongly and successfully dealing with Dementia/ Alzheimer's for 12 years.
I was able to get through Christmas pretty easily, emotionally, with friends last night and with my God-Son today. I was able to sit with Gregory's ashes and speak of my love for him and how grateful I am and will continue to be for having known and for having loved him and for his having loved me so strongly.
New Years will be the next hurdle over which to hurtle but I will face that when I get there, followed by Gregory and my 41st anniversary on January 10th. Ironically there is HURT in HURTle! Anyway Merry Christmas to you my readers. Thanks for being here!
This photo of the 40 year Christmas Full Moon was taken by friend Jerome Bloom:
Rudolph’s nose may not need to be quite so bright on the way back to the North Pole this Christmas. For the first time since 1977, the sky will be lit up with a full moon.
The rare event is called the Full Cold Moon because it occurs during the beginning of winter. This year’s peak will happen on Friday, at exactly 3:11 a.m., Oregon time.
While many will no doubt still be fast asleep, anyone who does want to see the moon will have a good chance to view it, according to KGW Meteorologist Rod Hill.
He said partly cloudy skies are in the forecast, but it looks like conditions could break for good sky watching.
“A cold night with partly cloudy skies and maybe a snowflake in the air could go mostly clear at times, allowing a great view of the moon and maybe Santa's sleigh, too,” Hill said.
The Christmas full moon phenomenon won’t happen again until 2034, according to NASA officials who track this kind of thing.
“As we look at the moon on such an occasion, it's worth remembering that the moon is more than just a celestial neighbor,” said John Keller, NASA’s Goddard Space Flight Center in Greenbelt, Maryland. “The geologic history of the moon and Earth are intimately tied together such that the Earth would be a dramatically different planet without the moon.”
You made it this far; keep hurtling over each hurdle.
ReplyDeleteUntil today, I failed to realize there was another blog, Michael the Writer. On which do you prefer to have comments?
Many of the posts on this the Alzheimer's blog, bring to mind some comment. Four of my half-siblings died with Alzheimer's. On the other hand sister Ethel died at the most advanced age and was sharp as a tack, just worn out from years of trying to help watch after the others.
I was reluctant to comment on old posts. Sometimes that is considered spam, though spammers usually comment on outdated posts in hope their garbage will get by unnoticed.
I've updated the end of the blog to read (more correctly) "New Years will be the next hurdle over which to hurtle." Wow, what a history with dementia your family has had. My heart goes out to all of them and their spirits, hopefully happy now.
DeleteFeel free to comment where you would like. If it is an "Alzheimer's Post" you may comment there. If it is a "Writer's Post" you may comment there. ALSO, feel free to comment on older posts as no comment gets through without my OK. I have gotten a number of "spam" posts, buried like you say, but I do not let them through. Again, Merry Christmas.