FOR GREGORY. He was not a VICTIM of ALZHEIMER'S DISEASE, he was a HERO!

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Showing posts with label Lieberman. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Lieberman. Show all posts

Monday, December 28, 2015

A Brainstorming Chart

May have posted this previously but just came across it today as I was cleaning up my computer files. Did this one day last year when I was feeling "down" and wanted to revisit my apologies to Gregory, and to list everything I could think of for which I was grateful. 

One thing I did not include was what a trooper Gregory was, always kind, calm, patient, loving, forgiving, etc etc etc.

Hope you can read this or enlarge it on your computer screen. If you cannot read the "small print" and would like me to send you a copy via e-mail or snail mail let me know.

Saturday, December 26, 2015

The Bear

As you may have read in a previous post, a little bit of Gregory's ashes are tucked lovingly into a white bronze bear which I carry in my pocket, as an amulet for love, remembrance, and protection.


The bear, or Gregory Bear as I call him, was in my pocket during the presentation of my observations, comments, and suggestions as shared with all of the Department Heads at Lieberman Center where Gregory spent the last 18 months of his life receiving excellent care and where I visited him almost every day. The post about the meeting can be seen here: http://mhorvichcares.blogspot.com/2015/12/the-meeting.html (Opens in a new window.)

In many ways it was a miracle that the people who run Lieberman cared enough to want to hear from me and that they would devote an hour and a half out of their busy, often overworked schedules to attend a lunch meeting to do so. 

My presentation was well received, I do not think that anyone heard things that they did not already know, but perhaps some of my suggestions helped shed a new light on how some of what goes on at Lieberman could be better, or fixed, or implemented.

Perhaps my comments, from the point of view of a family member who was able to engage with staff, residents, and family of residents in a way that was supportive, grateful, and non-threatening, would plant seeds for future change.

As I was leaving the meeting, I felt a great sense of completion. I had supported Gregory during his stay at Lieberman. I was with him as he prepared for his passage and finally passed. I contributed to staff recognition and appreciation. I organized a meeting to share my observations for improvement and presented it well. I felt as though my mission was accomplished. Yes, I felt a great sense of completion.

When I got home, I emptied my pockets into the bowl on the table in the front hall. That night as I was drifting off to sleep, I realized that I did not remember taking Gregory Bear out of my pocket and putting him in his little box which lives in the bowl. I got out of bed to double check and sure enough there was no Gregory Bear to see. He had gone missing.

I checked the bowl, the drawers in the table beneath the bowl, rechecked my pants pockets in the closet, double checked everything, checked the pants that I had worn the day before, just in case. No Gregory Bear.

At first I was upset. I had never lost anything by having it fall out of my pocket before. How could this have happened? I calmed myself down saying, "At least it wasn't something significant that cannot be replaced." There is still a lot of Gregory left and I can always buy another bear to fill.

I calmed myself down by telling myself that perhaps it was destiny that the bear go missing as part of my feeling a great sense of completion. Perhaps I was ready to move on to the next part of my life. 

I sent a photo of the bear to the woman who had organized the meeting at Lieberman. She checked with the lost and found, looked on the floor around the room, asked the custodians if they had seen the missing bear. No luck.

Several weeks after Gregory Bear took a hike, I was filling the pockets of my Santa Claus suit as I was preparing to be Santa at a Casa Norte Volunteer Gift Wrapping Party. I opened the drawer so I could take a few cough drops, which would be needed after the expected many HO HO HOs. 


And who should be sitting there in with the cough drops? Gregory Bear! You can imagine my joy! There were only half a dozen drops with the bear. It is not like he was covered or hidden. There he sat in full view in the place I had previously looked, or so I thought. Maybe I never looked in the drawer. Maybe I just looked past him. Maybe he was gone and decided to return after I had a chance to deal with the separation? Who knows for sure.

Either way, Gregory Bear and I are happily reunited and whenever I need "a little bit of Gregory," I put my hand in my pocket and caress the amulet. Love is strong in the little ways one copes and remembers. It feels like yet another miracle send by Gregory to me with love.

Friday, December 18, 2015

Surprises

Received this from the social worker on the Memory Care Unit at Lieberman where Gregory lived for 18 months. When he died, we left most of the items in his room behind for others to enjoy. The plants were shared. The furniture was either given to other needing residents or sold to employees at a greatly discounted price, the money of which went to Lieberman. Some of his "stuff" went to the Life Enrichment Department and the Art Room.

Do you recognize this cactus?  When I put it in my office in October I had no idea there was such a beautiful surprise in store!  I look forward each day to coming into work to see if any more flowers have bloomed.  It is a wonderful reminder of two special people. H



Saturday, December 12, 2015

Perspective Changes

Interesting how one's perceptions of life change when an important person in one's life dies.

When my mom and dad died, I wrestled with how someone could be here today and gone tomorrow. Wondered where that energy went. Wonder where our time together went from my being a child, to a teenager, to a young adult, to a full grown adult (if one ever becomes full grown.)

I missed them. I grieved not only their death but what I considered the missed opportunities for parent/son relationships and how different it could have been if they were different, if I was different. 

Acknowledged that I was grateful for many opportunities they did provide and for the love that existed. Acknowledged that they did the best job of parenting that they could and that I did the best job of "offspringing" that I could.

Now, with Gregory's passing, my perceptions of time have been shifting and the shift has caused me to do some deeper thinking.

Gregory and I lived, and we worked at living well for twelve years, with his diagnosis of Dementia/Alzheimer's. At times our life felt normal and at times we also felt like we were living on a roller coaster as his needs confounded, our interactions became surreal, his abilities failed and resurfaced only to finally fail again.

Now when I think about those twelve years, it feels like minutes. At the time it felt like forever, but now that the confusion, frustration, anger, sorrow, fear, etc no longer exists, it feels like moments.

Gregory spent the last 18 months of his life at the Lieberman Center for Health and Rehabilitation on the Alzheimer's Special Care Unit. At the time it was a day in and day out activity. Grateful to Manny for providing not only care and safety for Gregory but also for the love, socialization, and life enrichment he provided on a day to day basis.

When Gregory's health needed extra attention or his medications needed rebalancing or when his difficult behaviors needed a look see; my life would feel topsy turvy. But once the Lieberman nurses, doctors, hospice care, and I did our problem solving; things settled down for both Gregory and me.

Now, with Gregory on his next adventure, without my daily visits, and the Care Conferences, and the monitoring of his daily needs and treatment;  it feels like Lieberman was but a breath.

During the three days it took Gregory to die, I saved many vivid, sometimes difficult and sometimes joyful, memories of the process. None-the-less it feels like those three days were shrouded by a certain numbness. 

The planning of two tributes for Gregory was easy. Gregory's Memorial at the condo (attended by over 100 family and friends) was gratifying and consoling as was the Lieberman Memorial to thank them for their care and support (attended by over 150 staff, residents, and families at Lieberman the following week.)

Now, when I think of Gregory, it feels like his dying was but an instant and at the same time that he has always been dead, when if fact it is just over two months since he died. Strange feeling - ALWAYS been dead.

The thoughts which next occupy my mind then ... based on Gregory and my twelve years seeming like a moment, and his Lieberman stay feeling like a breath, and his death feeling like not only an instant but also forever ... are that my life, now, will last just a few moments longer with the lesson being that I must live each day to its fullest doing things that matter to me, spreading joy and love whenever I can, and doing the best I can without being too unforgiving of myself and my weaknesses and being forgiving of others. 

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In this thinking and these awarenesses, I focus on the buddhist teachings which explain that our suffering is based on permanent attachment to things which are ever changing. Nothing is permanent. 


Thus early Buddhism declares that in this world there is nothing that is fixed and permanent. Every thing is subject to change and alteration. "Decay is inherent in all component things," declared the Buddha and his followers accepted that existence was a flux, and a continuous becoming.

According to the teachings of the Buddha, life is comparable to a river. It is a progressive moment, a successive series of different moments, joining  together to give the impression of one continuous flow. It moves from cause to cause, effect to effect, one point to another, one state of existence to another, giving an outward impression that it is one continuous and unified movement, where as in reality it is not. The river of yesterday is not the same as the river of today. The river of this moment is not going to be the same as the river of the next moment. So does life. It changes continuously, becomes something or the other from moment to moment.

Take for example the life of an individual. It is a fallacy to believe that a person would remain the same person during his entire life time. He changes every moment. He actually lives and dies but for a moment, or lives and dies moment by moment, as each moment leads to the next. A person is what he is in the context of the time in which he exists. It is an illusion to believe that the person you have seen just now is the same as the person you are just now seeing or the person whom you are seeing now will be the same as the person you will see after a few moments. 

Even from a scientific point of view this is true. We know cell divisions take place in each living being continuously. Old cells in our bodies die and yield place continuously to the new ones that are forming. Like the waves in a sea, every moment, many thoughts arise and die in each individual . Psychologically and physically he is never the same all the time. Technically speaking, no individual is ever composed of the same amount of energy. Mental stuff and cellular material all the time. He is subject to change and the change is a continuous movement.

Impermanence and change are thus the undeniable truths of our existence. What is real is the existing moment, the present that is a product of the past, or a result of the previous causes and actions. Because of ignorance, an ordinary mind conceives them all to be part of one continuous reality. But in truth they are not.

The various stages in the life of a man, the childhood, the adulthood, the old age are not the same at any given time. The child is not the same when he grows up and becomes a young man, nor when the latter turns into an old man. The seed is not the tree, though it produces the tree, and the fruit is also not the tree, though it is produced by the tree.

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Tuesday, December 1, 2015

The Meeting

On Monday November 30, 2015 I presented a workshop to share my observations and suggestions for improvement on the Alzheimer's Special Care Unit at the Lieberman Center for Health and Rehabilitation.

All of the department heads, managers, and key players were invited for a luncheon from 11:30 - 1:00 which was catered by Max's deli. I figured it was the least I could do to appreciate these people for spending time with me.

I prepared a folder for each participant which contained a number of informative handouts on Dementia/Alzheimers: Biomedical and Experiential Models of Dementia, 12 top tips in working with people with dementia, Speaking Dementia (which offers tips on working as well,) and Dementia Language Guidelines (which offers correct language use when talking to or about people with dementia.)

The following is a transcript of the complete presentation: 

BACKGROUND

My purpose for today’s get together is to share my observations and possible ideas to help the Lieberman Center for Health and Rehabilitation’s Alzheimer’s Special Care Unit be the best it can be and possibly become a model for others to follow.

I am a very observant person. I consider that to be a blessing AND a course. Besides being observant, I believe that I am able to see the many sides to any situation.

When I was a young man working for the State of Illinois Department of Mental Health, I worked on a behavior modification unit where young adults in trouble with the law were sent by the courts for rehabilitation. One of the responsibilities for which I was trained was to be an “Independent Observer.” Write down what you see, make no judgements, assign no value.

As an elementary school teacher of over 30 years, I became intensely aware of classroom environment, social milieu, planning and strategy. I worked with children diagnosed with Autism, pre-schoolers and teenagers with developmental disabilities, directed a day camp, taught regular fourth and fifth grades, and taught Junior High Spanish. As an administrator for the Glenview Schools Gifted Education program for seventeen years, I worked as a consultant to teachers, an advisor to other administrators, an advocate for parents, and an educator of children. 

DISCLAIMERS

While I believe that my background has enabled me to prepare for this meeting, I must make a few disclaimers.

In no way do I believe that I have “all the answers.” In no way do I pretend to be as knowledgeable in the area of resident care as each of you are in your individual fields. I know that I can not begin to understand all of the complexities and ramifications of running a facility like Lieberman. 

My observations and suggestions for improvement are based on 18 months of engagement with staff, CNAs, residents, other families, and with my life partner Gregory. They do not necessarily reflect what goes on with other care floors in the building or what may currently be in place since Gregory died two months ago.
I am grateful for Manny Kagatan, Gregory’s private-pay care-worker, who provided for Gregory many of the suggested improvements mentioned here.

I apologize in advance if I offend anyone, am incorrect in my observations, or am naive in my understanding of the immense task with which you all are entrusted. I hope that you do not feel the need to explain, defend, or apologize, but rather if any of my observations or suggestions can create the beginning of new conversations about the Alzheimer’s Special Care Unit EXPERIENCE, then my purpose is served!

I am honored to be able to share my ideas with you!

IDEAL SITUATION BELIEFS - Unit

In the idea, the fifth floor Alzheimer’s Special Care Unit is a place where the atmosphere is pleasant, friendly, and warm most all of the time. It is a place where residents can enjoy safe surroundings, have their medical needs met, feel part of a community, and have their social/emotions needs met as well. It is a place where residents, as much as possible, do not feel alone, or isolated, or bored.

If the fifth floor is to truly be a Alzheimer’s SPECIAL Care Facility, it needs to be special, different from how the other floors are run, organized, staffed, maintained, etc. It needs to look and feel and behave differently.

Higher Standards:
The care given on the unit must attempt to raise above state rules and regulations, insurance restrictions, bottom line budget decisions, lack of time for proper planning and implementation, and other limitations.

Home vs Hospital Model:
The Alzheimer’s Special Care Unit should attempt to follow more of a “home” model of care than a “hospital” model of care, when ever possible, in which residents do not feel isolated, alone, bored, angry … but rather feel a sense of home, of camaraderie, of community and maybe even joy!

Experiential vs Biomedical Model:
The unit should attempt to follow more of an “experiential” model than a “biomedical” model of care, whenever possible, in which residents needs are met in individualized, meaningful, diverse, loving ways with Lieberman’s continued minimal use of drugs and medications to control, damper, or suppress behaviors.

Summary:
I see the need to re-think programming for the unit in six areas: 1) staff scheduling, training, and communication; 2) meeting resident social and emotional needs; 3) meeting resident dining needs; 4) activity planning, presentation, and delivery; 5) unit space design, utilization, and furnishing; and 6) volunteer use.

IDEAL SITUATION BELIEFS - Staff

Nursing Staff:
The nurse director and floor nurses provide excellent health care in the anticipation and meeting of resident needs, even when residents cannot communicate for themselves. Regular assignments of nurses, minimal use of floating nurses, would benefit residents. In addition to delivering medications, more attention during dining time to feeding, conversation, supporting, and offering choices should be the rule.

The support from Lieberman’s Director of Nursing, Assistant Directors of Nursing, and Restorative Nurses offer excellent support to the overall operation of the Fifth Floor.

Social Work Staff:
The social worker provides excellent support to family members and to residents, although I believe that the ratio of 1:48 is a little too high for our specialized population. Social work and grieving support is needed for staff as well.

The Lieberman Social Worker Director provides excellent support to the overall operation of the Fifth Floor.

Milieu Manager Role:
I have imagined the new role of Milieu Manger. This person would work closely with the Nurse Director and the Social Worker, would have extensive training and background in Dementia/Alzheimer’s care, and would be responsible for overall oversight of the daily functioning of the unit in non-health and non-social work areas.

She would help create and oversee a friendly, engaging therapeutic environment for residents based on best practices research. She would oversee lunch and dinner time, and would provide supervision for CNAs and floor nurses during her modified PM shift from 12 until 8 pm, at which time most residents are moving towards bedtime. 

She would also be responsible for making sure CNA supplies were stocked in the main storage area and in each wing. She would be available for support, in a hands on way, anytime it was needed.

Staff Training:
More attention would be given to all staff training in the area of Dementia and Alzheimer’s. The training would be intensive and exceed usual expectations. A plan would be instituted to quickly and efficiently bring new employees up to date.

IDEAL SITUATION BELIEFS -  CNAs

A plan would be in place which includes special, extensive, detailed Dementia/Alzheimer’s training and would include instructions for proper handling of residents who cannot move themselves, make sure resident clothing is neatly arranged and comfortable, ensuring proper posture and seating in wheel chairs with placement of pillows if appropriate. 

The plan would include detailed procedures for sanitary care and cleaning of residents after soiling, appropriate verbal interaction with residents, appropriate disruptive behavior support, detailed eating support for residents, and more.

Currently, fifth floor CNAs, who work very hard, spend most of their time moving residents from place to place, meeting resident physical needs, delivering food, assisting those who need feeding support at mealtimes, and supporting floating or new CNAs who are unfamiliar with residents and the needs of the floor. 

CNAs have very little time to socialize or interact with residents, to engage residents in activities, or to support activities presented by the activity therapist. When the unit is fully staffed by regular fifth floor CNAs, it runs more smoothly. When the unit is supported by floating CNAs, the job is not as well done and the environment suffers.

More informative two-way communication, from managers, should be available to all CNAs, including a daily report by the nurse manager at shift change as well as better communication with new staff or “floaters.”

The number of CNAs on the floor should be increased to 8 for the day shift and 8 for the PM shift. This would allow four teams with two CNAs per team to be assigned to each of the four wings. Currently, many if not most of the residents on the fifth floor need more than one CNA to assist with toileting, cleaning up after soiling, and bathing. Instead of spending time finding another CNA who is free to help, the teams would work together more efficiently.

Residents would be assigned to a team based on which wing they lived in. If “personality differences” arose, there would be two CNAs on the wing with whom a resident could interact.

This increase in staffing would allow for better wing supervision, more efficient and meaningful mealtimes, opportunities for more appropriate activities (discussed later,) more conversational and interactive time with residents, and overall better care of the residents physical, social and emotional needs not to mention safety. Also, regular CNAs would be better able to support the fewer, hopefully, floating CNAs which were needed on the unit.

With two CNAs at a time supervising wing time, residents needs would be better met and safety no longer an issue.

IDEAL SITUATION BELIEFS - Mealtime

All food departments at Lieberman contribute to the well being of the fifth floor residents; including Dietitians, Nutritionists, Kitchen Managers, Chefs, kitchen workers, and food servers on the floor. 

There is usually plenty of delicious food with seconds available to residents. Regular, mechanical, and pureed selections are always tasty. Food for those on regular diets is cut into bite size pieces. Alternatives at times are available when residents do not like a particular selection.

All fifth floor staff would be trained to assist and would participate in meal time duties including CNAs, activity therapists, social worker, nurses, Nurse Manager, and Mileiu Manager.

All breaks and meals for staff would be scheduled during non-meal times to allow for a better experience for residents. A better eye would be kept for when residents need seconds on food, alternate selections, or beverages refilled.
With everyone helping deliver food and helping residents who need help with eating, long waits during mealtimes become unnecessary. Also, residents would experience more meaningful interactions while eating, as well as not feeling rushed.

IDEAL SITUATION BELIEFS - Social/Emotional

Besides health care, more attention needs to be given to the social and emotional well being of residents. They should be regarded in ways that engage and support who they are as people, not only who they are as patients.

Depending on the minute, hour, day, week, and month; the unit’s functioning can vary from smooth to chaotic! When residents are upset, angry, screaming, arguing, trying to get out of their wheel chairs, etc, not only is the social/emotional environment difficult but also safety issues arise. A contingency plan needs to be in place to help handle “more difficult” days on the unit.

IDEAL SITUATION BELIEFS - Environment

Housekeeping does an excellent job of keeping the unit clean. Environment is a very important factor and includes cleanliness, visual attractiveness, comfortable furniture, lack of odors, calmness, and comfortable spaces for small group and large groups. The laundry department keeps clothes washed and returned promptly.  

New furniture is on the list when renovations are done on the other floors. This is most needed. New bins for trash and waste should obtained which can be sealed to keep odors in. The current ones, even though newer, do not serve this purpose. Rather than replace these, perhaps the current bins could be changed more often. 

Periodically building custodians would touch up painted walls and doors so most of the time the unit would look clean and in order. Rooms would be cleaner, especially in the corners. Beds, dressers, and other room furniture would periodically be wiped down and disinfected.

IDEAL SITUATION BELIEFS - Activities

The Activity Therapist works hard to provide residents with meaningful activities. The Lieberman Life Enrichment Manager supports her work and provides an overall building approach to activities as do the other building activity people and art therapist, who work periodically on five.

It would be good if there were two, full time Activity Therapists on the fifth floor. Small and large group wing supervision and activities, with engagement supported by CNAs, would take place more often and in more than one area. The activities would run throughout the day and early PM shifts and would include weekends as well.

At times, residents would be divided according to abilities, interests, and needs. If a resident’s ability changes or could go either way; activity levels would be re-evaluated.
Activities would include folding laundry, art, music appreciation, singing, cooking, exercise, dance, clay modeling, sensory units, reading aloud, exploring photographs of famous people or places, aroma therapy, parachute games, fish tank discussions, current event discussions, using headphones and a iPod to play music tailored to the resident’s likes, or just having a back massaged and being touched. Other activities could be created. Off campus field trips are scheduled for those who are able to attend them.

Watching appropriate television programing, a musical or old time video on DVD, nature scenes backed by classical music, etc are done on TVs that are large enough for everyone to see, with sound that is turned loud enough for everyone to hear, and in a room or two rooms if the group is divided that are large enough for everyone to have a “good seat.“ TV programs that portray violence or crime and news programs would never be shown.

Physical and Occupational Therapists provide overall support to fifth floor residents in their space on the second floor. They would also be seen on five working with residents and periodically looking for ways to support staff with their expertise. Group activities at times would be facilitated by the therapists.

A “day room” somehow needs to be provided. One which is large enough so that most residents can attend functions and be comfortable while participating in activities. It should be well furnished, equipped, and provisioned to provide for art, music, discussion, exercise, cooking, movies, TV, and other activities.

If a space like this cannot be created, then perhaps dining room use might be re-thought. Smaller tables on wheels can be set up ahead of time by kitchen staff and moved into a corner of the dining room to make space for activities. Then at meal time, the tables would be rolled back where they belong, and with wheels lowered, would sit securely and safely in place. 
With activities in the dining room just before or just after meals, less time would be spent moving residents from place to place. A larger than life TV screen, mounted on the wall, would allow for theater like experiences with most of the residents being able to be in the room and to have a good seat.

IDEAL SITUATION BELIEFS - Volunteers

The Volunteer Manager would continue to do her good job of vetting and training individual volunteers who would work independently with residents.  She would supervise groups of less or untrained volunteers during activities. Supervised children would spend time with residents in a “Grandparent Program” and school groups would put on performances.

Volunteers would also assist with transportation within the unit and with bringing residents to the first floor for building activities, ice cream and hot chocolate in the Nosh, or just outside during good weather, for some fresh air.

Volunteers would include adults, organizations, children, school groups, family members, and pets. Language specific volunteers would support and engage residents who do not speak English.

IDEAL BELIEFS SITUATION SUMMARY - Excellent
  • Health care and nursing on 5
  • Staff are well meaning, caring people
  • Staff works very, very hard to meet resident needs
  • Meals are hot, delicious, ample, and meet resident abilities to eat
  • Environment is clean, sanitary, and safe

IDEAL BELIEFS SITUATION SUMMARY - Need Attention
  • Staffing of regular CNAs vs “Floaters”
  • Staff communications and training needs attention
  • Meeting social, emotional, and behavioral issues
  • Mealtime experience needs
  • Space use, availability, and furnishing
  • Activities
IDEAL SITUATION BELIEFS - In Conclusion

My hopes and purpose today has been that this fantasy story will give you a different picture or a new way of looking at what the Special Memory Care Unit at Lieberman could be.

Like releasing balloons, wherever they may land, perhaps the observations which helped create this story, will help begin the process of discussing what a total milieu on the fifth floor should and could look like. 

Sometimes status quo is the rule when time and energy, adherence to state mandates, insurance regulations, and budgetary constraints do not allow for studying, planning, and making effective, needed change. I ask you to continue your fine, loving work with those in your charge and to look at making that work even better.

Sunday, October 25, 2015

Martha

Had to return to Lieberman to face my sorrows and to visit some old friends. 

Martha was happy to see me. She has been sad since Gregory left her behind. I invited her to go down to the Sunday concert and she accepted.

At one point, Angie, a nurse, came up to say hello to Martha. Martha introduced me as "Father Time!"

When she saw the above photo she asked, "Who s that old bag?" Then she giggled.

She said, "It looks like I don't have a tooth in my mouth!" She doesn't.

I told her, "I love you!" She responded saying, "You say that to all the pretty girls, don't you!"

She commented about how wonderful it was to have a place like this (referring to Lieberman)  to provide entertainment for all the old and infirm. "If you can call it that!"she added. 

She ended by saying, you know you can do what ever you want to. You don't have to be old and infirm!

Wednesday, October 14, 2015

Lieberman Center Thank You Party and Celebration of Gregory

Today we held a thank you party for the residents, family members, administration, Life Enrichment, nursing, CNA's, housekeeping, security, food services, laundry services, and other staff I am probably forgetting to mention at the Lieberman Center to thank them for all the help and love they give to Gregory during his 20 months living on the Special Memory Care Unit.

It was held on the main floor in "The Nosh." Refreshments included many kinds of cookies, cakes, chocolate toffee, brownies, MandM's, red licorice, Tootsie Rolls, Mini Snickers-Babe Ruths-Butter Fingers-Peanut Butter Cups, fresh fruit, hot coffee and tea, ice tea, and lemonade.

Approximately 150 people attended and the accolades, compliments, stories, and love for Gregory continued to pour out from everyone who attended. He was so loved by so many who could tell the gentle, kind, compassionate, patient, loving person he was.

Here are some photographs of the event as taken by Manny. Faces of residents are blurred for privacy reasons.