These are a few wonderful tips from an article in the Blue Cross Blue Shield newsletter. We rely on speech so strongly that when a person with Alzheimer's is unable to use language times get rough. A suggestions for people with advanced dementia is to write a simple, brief note using large letters to communicate. Have the person read the note and see the response.
Also creating a "Memory Book" with pictures of family helps to unlock stored memories that a person with Alzheimer's just can't get out in a chat. It's not that the person has forgotten, they just need help with remembering. Creating a book with commonly needed objects or activities is another way to communicate.
Neither of these techniques are necessary yet with us but they are good to keep in mind. With Gregory, I have found that simple sentences, spoken slowly (but not insultingly,) after I have Gregory's attention usually do the job. One or two ideas at a time is the most he can handle when I ask him to do something.
I have made signs to help him remember including: 1) by the table near the front door where we keep our pocket stuff - FOR YOUR POCKET - wallet, keys, cell phone, Chapstick, etc. 2) On a shelf in the closet by the front door is a list: COAT, SCARF, GLOVES, EARMUFFS? 3) On the inside of one of the kitchen cabinets is a sign with a column for each day of the week and pictures of what to have for breakfast on each day. This helps Gregory alternate cereals, sausage or fish, toast or muffin. Sometimes I will write a simple note on a POST-IT and hang it on his bathroom mirror, paste it to this bedside table, or stick it to his breakfast tray.
Today these techniques work, tomorrow they may not so we will develop new ones. One day at a time!!!
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